What does it say when someone decided to stay in a negative position,,,

because they fear that the pain of changing their life will be too onerous for them to bear.

 I've known people who stay in misery and frustration because they are terrified by the idea of how painful the process of changing might be.

 I've learned that pain is a symbolism of  leaerning new behavior that will benefit me. Pain and hard times can be a product of healing. Understanding why you must become different can be quite a shock but living a better life IS worth the cost of getting here!

- Johnny -